It was our first big family event since Mom died .
妈死后第一个家族聚会。
It 's a big plus for my mom .
对我妈来说是个大负担。
I would wear , like , big T-shirts and my mom said I was at the beach since I was a day old .
我会穿着大T恤,妈妈说我生下来才一天就开始在海边玩耍了。